It has been a long time since I have posted anything on this blog. That is entirely the fault of the universe and the fact that society expects me to be able to manage my time. Adulting is damn hard! But really, I have just been busy as shit. It may be a bit rambley. You don’t have to agree with me, but if you do, that’s cool! So, that brings me to the topic of today’s post:
Why I DNF books
Now this is a pretty contentious topic. A lot of different people have a lot of different opinions about DNFing books. I used to sit firmly in camp NEVER DNF! But, recently, I have jumped ship. I now stand proud as a DNFer.
For those who are new to the book community, you may be wondering, “What the fuck is this woman on about?” well, let me explain.
If you mark a book as DNF, it means you Did Not Finish it. Simples!
I used to be someone who wanted to READ ALL OF THE DAMN BOOKS, EVERY SINGLE ONE! If I started a book, even if I wasn’t enjoying it, I would push through it and then review it accordingly.
That has changed. Life is busy. I have a career. I am building a house. I get very stressed. And some books are shit, lets be honest.
I had the epiphany a few months ago. I signed up for NetGalley. I wanted to be a book blogger who got all these free ARCs and got to read books early, wouldn’t that just be so fantastic? I got approved for a few titles, downloaded them to my phone, and then never looked at them again. The books that I was getting were not the quality I would generally wish for in a book. So I would read a few pages, and then close them, never to be opened again. This was when I realised: I blog for fun. I bookstagram for fun. I write reviews for fun. To be a part of the community. To share my love of books with others.
I have so much respect for people who are able to read books and write critical reviews while simultaneously being entertaining. I love how so many people have made careers out of book reviewing and Booktube! But, that simply isn’t for me. I realised that I can be a part of the amazing online book community without doing that. And by realising this, I realised that meant that I don’t have to waste time reading books that I don’t like, just so that I can review them and tell everyone how much I didn’t like it.
I felt liberated!
Reading is my passion and my number one passtime outside of work. It calms me down, centres me. It makes me feel more emotions than I ever thought I could. It helps me connect with others, make friends who I never thought I would make friends with.
But because reading is my passion and hobby, I don’t want it to become a chore. I want to read books that I enjoy. Books that will become some of my favourites. Books that make me feel something. Books that I will fall in love with every time I read them.
I realised: if I think a book is shit, that’s ok. If I can’t bring myself to finish a book, that’s ok.
Life gets busy. Being an adult is intense. There is always something going on. When I read, I want it to be for enjoyment. I don’t want to feel like I have to finish a book if I don’t want to. I have finished Uni, I don’t have to read books for class anymore, I can read whatever the hell I want!
Life is too short to waste time reading books that you hate. Even if it is hyped, even if it is popular. If you don’t like a book, put it down! Don’t waste your precious time! Life is so short!
Anyway- I am aware this reads like a stream of consciousness. I’ve also realised that I don’t have to pressure myself to blog, I can do it whenever and however I please!
I would love to know your thoughts on DNFing books!
Happy reading!
Jess
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